that you understand the Lord’s ways and that you see the importance of obeying Him. It is not wise to follow what other Christians are doing just because it ‘works’ or it is ‘the accepted way of doing it’ etc. We have to follow the New Testament and the pattern, or example, the Apostles and disciples of our Lord Jesus set there. Every thing has to be tested and judged, as the Bible says.
Part of an email from my wife Sheela to a young sister in Christ.